Remember the game Mario that we used to play when we were young. It took me so many years to understand what it means to be a Mario.
Mario is a manifestation of life in the easiest and simplest way. The game of Mario teaches us more about life and destiny. We grow in life; move from one stage to other gathering new powers and achieving new feats and then a point comes in life when you choose between going to one path or the other. Wasn't that the same in Mario. The stage of life is set and it depends upon us which path we take and what we do with our lives.
we believe that when we were born, we were born for a reason to complete a task on this planet and that we have a kismet which will take us through our life to the end of it. It is all written and we will do according to that. That is an escapist's way of thinking. We all want to blame someone else if something wrong happens in our life and that is fate and we say it was meant to be.
I firmly believe that we are the Mario of our own lives. Its just the stage of life that is set and how we perform in it and what paths we choose depends on us. Its like having the vegetables cut and waiting for them to cook without igniting the stove. Its the fate of vegetables to get cooked in a cooker provided you ignite the stove.
So ignite the stove of your life to cook the vegetables; for vegetables and stove is given to you, but it is you who has to ignite the stove.
Life will present us with opportunities and problems on its way but how we make use of opportunities or brave the problems depends entirely on us. Lets not blame other for our mistakes and also not give credit to others for your hard work.
Remember in the game of Mario to cross each stage, there are so many alternate paths and shortcuts and each shortcut you get something to make you more powerful. In life also, there comes so many times when you reach a place where you have to make a decision in choosing between two equally appeasing paths but which one you choose depends entirely on you. Whether you get a facile, trouble-free road or a road full of upheavals is something that you don't know in advance. You cannot got back in time and change your decision , so no point crying over it, and who knows the other roads would be tougher one. So travel the road that you have chosen and work hard to make it a good ending.
We are the Mario of our own lives so behave like one.